Potty Training Over Memorial Day?

Are you going to start your potty training efforts over this long weekend? It’s a great time to start, but do keep in mind that for *most* kids, it will take more than a long-weekend to learn this skill. You can make really good headway though, so get out your potties and underpants and let’s get going!

First, have you determined your child’s temperament? Do you know what kind of potty training technique will resonate best with him or her? Do you have an inkling that the flushing sounds will scare him or the biggest struggle will be to get her to sit still? It’s imperative that you factor in your child’s personality before you take this first step. That’s where our book comes in! With the awesome expertise of pediatric neuropsychologist Dr. Pete Stavinoha, our book gives you a peek inside your child’s brain to help you figure out if just setting him on the potty at specific times or letting him run around naked will be the best way to start.

Once you’ve figured that out, it’s time to use our suggested techniques on your child. Regardless of the claims of *other* books, not one tactic will work for every child. Take our suggestions and improve upon them based on your individual child’s interests or your own family’s traditions.  Does your child like praise in the form of a big to-do – potty dance and whoops of victory? Or does he get embarrassed at that and would prefer just a high-five or a private hug?

Will you have lots of family in town for the holiday? Are you having a big cook-out with your neighbors? Take this into account when it comes to potty training, because not only may your child get scared to do his business in the midst of all these people, you also might get sidetracked from keeping a careful watch on your child and accidents might occur.

Accidents should be dealt with in a very matter-of-fact way. Don’t scold, that doesn’t help her learn. And don’t assume your child is really upset either. Just say, “Oh, you had an accident. That happens when you’re learning. It’s okay, let’s get you all cleaned up. Next time, let’s see how fast we can run to the bathroom!”

Spend a lot of time role-modeling – letting your child see how you go to the bathroom and what steps you take while you’re in there. It may be embarrassing or feel strange, but it’s the best way to help him learn.

Good luck… and Happy Memorial Day!